People seek truth to bring balance to their lives. Truth in its purest form cannot be warped or subdued. It is not the fictitious truth showcased in the abusers’ reality shows. It is not the truth spewed forth by the flying monkeys’ verbally abusive repertoire, or the initial churches’ judgmental truth. Truth can exist on …
The length of the bondage chains depends upon the situation and the mental and emotional depletion of the target. If the abuser sees that they can further deplete the target or use it to their benefit by still being alive, the chain will lengthen, much longer and more insidious than the bondage chain of Jacob …
Abusers and targets: There are two types of beings on this earth, those who give and those who take. This dichotomy also exists in the animal world: predators and prey. Scientifically, the takers are attracted to the givers like a magnet. It is an energy force of attraction: like and like repel, opposites attract. I …
Souls come with a clean slate at birth. As the person grows, the soul is supposed to grow with the person. But children have zero control over what family system we are born into. They can be conditioned or brainwashed to believe certain truths at a very young age, and learn quickly not to question …
Ask Dante, 14th-century Western literature famed writer of said circles. Perhaps the writer’s intention had a deeper, more profound meaning than merely exposing the hypocrites of his historical time period and their political corruption within the Catholic Church. Perhaps these mysteries would be revealed in the next phase of our souls’ existence. Some people believe …
A small child cries out after hiding in terror for so many years. She is unable to speak her pain. She has been taught she has no voice, that her opinions do not matter. She has no value except to serve or mirror the needs and desires of the caregivers. As she grows up, she …
“I will NOT be subjected to this abuse anymore!” …said the abuser. What? Who says that? Narcissists say that during a heated argument they started. Of course, they follow up the argument by saying, “I don’t want to argue with you,” while they are arguing. The shock of this abuse statement can rock the target …
Gaslighting is a form of narcissistic abuse which is listed in the DSMV under Axis II Cluster B personality disorders: NPD. So, should this reprehensible behavior be excused because it falls under a mental disorder? Absolutely not. These narcs know what they are doing; they are strategic. They must perform to survive. They can never …
“Narcissistic personalities are created and sustained. No one is born a narcissist. It is a habitual choice to be selfish and to lack empathy for other people. Never forget that it is a choice,” says Shannon Thomas with www.southlakecouseling.org. However, the psychiatric bible dubbed the DSMV published by the American Psychiatric Association labels narcissism under …